Who Are U?

Are you, who God wants you to be?
Are you, who your family wants you to be?
Are you, who you want to be?
And where you are in life, Are you happy?
Are you comfortable?
Is that acceptable to you?

What is important to you?
Does peace of mind matter?

If you have answered, yes to all these questions. You are absolutely perfect and you need to develop "Help Yourself" workshops.

I encourage you to know who you are.  And the first step is to love yourself.  You can not love anyone else until you can love yourself.  We have examples through the love God has for us by giving us Jesus.  Me personally, would have left yall way back in the Garden.  I love yall but I have a line drawn.   God is a spiritual love and Christ is flesh.

Lets talk about flesh love.  It can play tricks on you, especially if you don't love yourself first.  When we deal with flesh love, we selfishlessly include other people.  Are we mentally ready for that?  We won't know that until, We ........... ourself first.
Love is physcial.  Love doesn't hurt.  Would you hurt yourself?  Not on purpose.  If you cut your finger, you nuture it. And you are careful, how you handle yourself next time.  You don't keep doing it. 
Picture something that you do for yourself.  And think about the joy that it gives you.  There is feeling of peace.  So why not live in peace outside of that.  Peace is vital with love. 
Do you argue with yourself?  If when we do something stupid, we will regret it.  Learn from it and move on.
Love is fragile.  You have to develop a relationship with yourself before you can accept what someone else has to offer.  And there is one true example and it is..............?

Now there is a difference between love and desire.  Desire can mess us up.  You have to know the difference. And is it worth it?  What is desire?